Picture Perfect.

Sometimes new clients are sheepish or embarrassed by the desire to use visual aids as part of our consultation-as if it will somehow offend us.  It won’t.  We promise.    If you’ve ever wondered if it’s okay to bring a picture to your hair appointment as inspiration for your stylist, the answer is YES!  It’s always a good thing.

Stylists and their clients tend to speak different languages when it comes to hair.  We both use a lot of descriptive words like: texture, movement, blunt, sharp, etc.  But even though two people say they same word, doesn’t mean they are actually agreeing.  A picture is the perfect tool to show what you mean so you can get onto the same page quicker. Let’s think about Lassie:  Wouldn’t things have been simplified if Lassie just showed a picture of Timmy stuck in the well?

A picture is a great way to begin a consultation.  It opens up the dialogue with a clear starting point, and that sets everyone up for a successful appointment.  Even if you have been seeing the same stylist for years, if you’re in the mood for something new, do a little homework before you get to the salon and come armed with a picture.

A PICTURE OF YOURSELF

source: yo dona

source: yo dona

 

This is especially helpful if you’ve had a haircut in the past that you loved.  Maybe you’ve had a series of bad haircuts that moved you away from that style, or maybe you’re a style chameleon.  But bringing a picture of yourself with a haircut you loved will show us what kind of elements you like seeing on yourself, what kind of styling routine you can handle, and it will give you a chance to show us why it worked for you.  That doesn’t mean you have to do the exact same thing, but you should never feel like you can’t use a past picture of yourself for inspiration.  Just don’t dig too deep: No yearbook photos, please.

A PICTURE OF A CELEB

source: louis vuitton

source: louis vuitton

Obviously celebrity pictures are great because they are readily available. It takes a little more work on your part to find a picture that’s appropriate for you.  Sometimes clients tend to pick a picture because they really just like that picture- it’s less about the hair and more about what the whole thing represents- youth, beauty, and style.  Its good to find two or three separate photos (different celebrities even) with the same look you’re trying to capture.

WHAT NOT TO DO

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source: pixar

 

We have to admit, although pictures are highly encouraging, there have been a few follies in the past.  Please don’t bring a cartoon character’s picture.  Just because Pixar makes animated films look realistic, that doesn’t mean their hair can be created in nature.  Wanna know why?  Because it’s not real.  So stop showing us pictures of Elsa from Frozen, or any other Disney Princesses.

Pictures are an excellent tool for everyone, don’t be scared to use them.

Box Color.

Let’s talk about at-home hair color.

I obviously understand the needs of a DIY life, but this topic is a sensitive one for me because I’ve seen some pretty gruesome at-home dye jobs come into the salon to be fixed.  Honestly: It’s not always possible to fix them.

If you find yourself toying with the idea of taking matters into your own hands, let’s break it down so you can at least be an intelligent consumer, regardless of the path you choose to take.

DIFFERENT PEOPLE NEED DIFFERENT THINGS

Imagine, if you would, two women.  One has thick, coarse, wirey hair.  And the other has fine, soft, duck-fluff like hair. And for the sake of a visual aid, these women are as different as these two pups:

Puli Photo: Tim Flach; Chinese Crested Photo: Matt Toka

Puli Photo: Tim Flach; Chinese Crested Photo: Matt Toka

Option 1: Color from a Salon: When these two women come into a salon, the colorist can assess their unique hair types and formulate a color not only for the shade they want to be, but also formulate for their texture.  The coarse hair usually gets a stronger formula than the fine hair.  Simple enough, right?

Option 2: Color from a Box: If the same two women went to a drugstore instead to buy box color, the formulas are specifically made for the woman with the coarse hair so she will get the coverage she needs.  The fine haired woman will also get coverage, but her results will be darker, and over time she’ll notice some damage because it was too strong for her delicate hair

Box color is results oriented; and full gray coverage is the name of the game.  The formulas have nothing to do with hair texture.  Which is why the formula is never “quite right,” and over time your hair will begin to feel dry, look a little lackluster, which will make you color it again… and again.  Get the point?

BUT THE BOX SAID…

“Temporary… Gentle… Safe… Ammonia Free… Conditioning…”  The box will have a lot of claims.

It’s kind of shocking that consumers think this would be the one time product manufacturers are sticklers for Truth in Advertising.  It’s called marketing.  Marketing, as we all know, has very little to do with what’s in the box, and everything to do with what’s printed on the box.

Kind of like cigarettes back in the day.

vintage luckies ad

vintage luckies ad

Also, the words “permanent”, “semi permanent”, and “temporary” are thrown around carelessly in the world of hair color.  Regardless of what the box says, here’s the truth:

  • If you mix two things together before you apply it: It’s Permanent.
  • If you lightened the shade of your hair:  It’s Permanent.
  • If you can see regrowth after a few weeks: It’s Permanent.

Is permanent color bad?  Not necessarily.  But we don’t call it permanent color because of the longevity of the dye molecules.  We call it permanent because it’s a chemical strong enough to alter your natural hair color and actually permanently change the texture of your hair.  Changing it one time could be fine, twice is not so great, three times:  Welcome to Damage City.

progression of hair damage under a microscope.

progression of hair damage under a microscope.

SALON COLOR VS. AT-HOME COLOR

For example, L’Oreal makes professional hair color, and they also make home box color.  That might make you wonder if it’s all the same formulations.  I assure you, the only thing they have in common is the fact that they are made by chemists.

Would Gwen Stefani lie to me?

Gwen Stefani is lying to you.

For the sake of this comparison, hair color formulas have two parts that are mixed together: Color and Developer.

In the mixing room of most salons there will be at least 4 options of Developer Strengths and at least 3 options of hair color types (i.e. types that are specifically formulated to be super sheer, or normal, or opaque, or high lifting, etc).

The box you buy at the drugstore has 1 option included: one developer and one tube of color.  That’s it.

Since when is one size fits all a realistic thing?  What happens to women with allergies?  Or women that need more lift?  Or more conditioning?   Box color formulas are too broad to be desirable.  Period.

AT-HOME COLOR IS MORE AFFORDABLE

It sure is.  And while it does take time to find a great hair colorist that can be compatible with your budget, there is not a single one worth their weight that would ever discount their prices to compete with at-home color affordability.  We charge prices based on our experience, knowledge, and ability.  Like everything else in life, you get what you pay for.

Cartoon Credit: Jim Hunt

Cartoon Credit: Jim Hunt

I don’t care what the box promised you, or what the magazine article you read stated: Odds are an at-home dye job will never look like it walked out of a salon.  If you’re still going to reach for that box, now you at least know that you could be sacrificing the condition of your hair for about $10.